Saturday, December 29, 2007

Review: Antoinette's LOVES YOUR KIDS.

Tonight we went to Antoinette's for the second time, and it was wonderful. The food (which by the way includes antibiotic/hormone-free beef and free-range chicken) was quite delicious. On the ever-important kid front, the staff was very nice to us, even as the babies kept deliberately dumping food on the ground. They were able to give us 2 highchairs, AND they had paper over the tablecloth and CRAYONS. I'm certain that that was the first time we've been to a Harlem restaurant that was so welcoming to kids. Toward the end of our meal, the musicians (apparently they start playing at 8) started to arrive and they were cooing over our kids too -- in fact, the singer sang "Puff the Magic Dragon" as a special favor for our big boy and told me that if 8 is too late for us, they'd start a little earlier if we told them they're coming (!). Apparently they will be at Antoinette's through January.

We had been there once previously, but it was right when they opened and they didn't yet have their highchairs. They were super-nice and very apologetic about that, though, so rather than give them fewer than 4 Yum's, I waited til we came back and experienced the highchairs before writing this review. I'm glad I did: in addition to getting the kid issues down, I think they also did a better job this time at getting all the food prepared at the same time, etc. It was a real pleasure.

PS We weren't in the mood for wine tonight, but I believe they still have a BYOB policy pending receipt of their liquor license. Which gives you a chance to patronize The Winery or Harlem Vintage. Based on our experience last time they very graciously cork and provide glasses.

4 Yum's: Yum! Yum! Yum! Yum!

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Stephanie's

has a sign on it saying it has been seized for non-payment of taxes.

No comment....

Monday, November 26, 2007

Montreal Pet Care

New awning sighted cross the street from Antoinette's. Anyone know what this is?

Tell me it's not a direct competitor for Posh Paws, just a couple of blocks down from there....

Also, there's a sign on SoHa 118 indicating that a Chase branch will be opening soon.

An unsolicited suggestion to retailers: We really appreciate your efforts. But there's a MaMu on 116th and Fred, and clusters of banks at 116th/Lenox and 125th/Fred. Our pets already have nice things to wear and a vet. The human residents are looking for a green grocer, a bagel shop, an excellent pizzeria, Thai food, Japanese food, sit-down Chinese food, Indian food, a wonderful educational toy shop (Grandma's is great but not close enough to my house), stores that sell baby supplies (strollers, child-safety-hardware, furniture, etc.), indoor play areas without flashing lights and tons of artificial noise, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

Okay: Rant over.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Harlem Thanksgiving - digest (heh)

Due to a miscommunication, there were no blackeyed peas. However, there was cornbread, a Harlem-inspired addition which I failed to mention in my earlier post. While no one was blown away by the cornbread, it was pretty tasty and moist, which apparently is an achievement for parve cornbread, since cornbread is usually heavily dairy. (The recipe, which I found on a kosher blog, is a vegan recipe, purportedly from Angelica Kitchen, a restaurant I'm not crazy about but everyone vegan seems to love.) The collard greens, to which Uptown Dad added liquid smoke to make up for the lack of ham hocks, got lots of praise. And the sweet potato pie was certainly the sleeper hit of the night (people seemed more excited about that than about my husband's famous chocolate pecan pie, although we chocoholics continued to prefer the latter).

And the turkey -- oh my goodness, suffice it to say there were NO leftovers, none, zip, from a 17-pound bird. Yikes!

Harlem Thanksgiving 2

I never posted what we decided to do about Thanksgiving because it remained, and to an extent remains, up in the air. Suffice it to say, the "Thanksgiving" feast I was planning will take place this afternoon (yes, the Sunday after Thanksgiving). In honor of our beloved Harlem, it will include collard greens, black-eyed peas, and sweet potato pie, as well as wine from The Winery. In honor of our commitment to ethical kashrut, it will include kosher organic free-range turkey from Wise Organic Pastures. (Kudos to Simon Weil for starting Kosher Conscience! -- but we were not aware of its existence when we made our purchase.) Uptown Dad is doing ALL the cooking, and as the babies are asleep, now is my chance to go tidy up. I'll post later with how it turned out!

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Restaurant Review: Los Dos Molinos

A long, long time ago, when Uptown Mom was neither uptown nor yet a mom, she lived in New Mexico for several years.

The Land of Enchantment is, well, enchanting. It gets under your skin. Especially the food, which is a central part of life in New Mexico. New Mexico's "State Question," "Red or green?", refers to the type of chile you will be having on your food. (And yes, I do mean "chile". New Mexicans have made that very clear by directing their senator to enter the correct spelling into the Congressional Record.) (I just remembered that there is a third correct answer to the question "red or green" -- "Christmas" -- but I am never quite that indecisive about my New Mexican food.)

So we arrived in NYC (my hometown) in 2000 looking for New Mexican food. We tried so, so hard, for years and years, and couldn't find it. The closest we came was the enchiladas chile colorado at Alma and the green chili (sic) Sunday brunch at Superfine, both of which were actually pretty good but sadly incomplete as they did not come in the context of the whole cuisine. We don't eat pork, of course, but vegetarians do fine in New Mexican restaurants, and what we really wanted was somewhere where we could order our usual: cheese enchilada with red and chile relleno with green, and have sopapillas with honey and unsweetened iced tea. It didn't seem like such a tall order in a city with such an enormous diversity of cuisines, but we just couldn't find it. So my husband learned to make his own green chile, on the rare occasions that we could get Hatch green chile peppers from New Mexico (usually from friends who still had family there). Red is easier -- the dried red peppers can be found in NYC if you look hard enough -- but the green chiles, which must be transported cold, can only be obtained from friends who are flying back from New Mexico or by ordering them by fed ex overnight with dry ice at great expense. So sad we were! But we became resigned, and I think that for the past few years we haven't even tried to find it. We were defeated.

Then, we heard from some fellow UNM alums (my husband got a graduate degree while we were there) about Los Dos Molinos. And I am now so full and happy that I really don't care that this review has nothing to do with Harlem or kids. We had our enchilada "with red". We had our chile relleno "with green". We even had the sopapilla, which the New Mexicans had cautioned us were more akin to (Navajo) frybread, but which we found close enough to the real thing once we got them to serve the honey on the side. And we had iced tea, and a margarita. Oh, it was a revelation. The real thing.

Funny thing, everyone (including the New Mexicans we met) seems to go on about how extremely spicy the food is, and how the east coast natives can't take it. Our verdict was: it's exactly as we remember the food in New Mexico. Spicy but not out of control. As a New York native who was raised from infancy on Szechuan food (and learned to adore Indian and Thai as a teenager, although my parents never introduced me to it), I never found the spice level in New Mexico particularly difficult to handle -- this was pretty much the same. So yeah, it's spicy, but not out of control -- just good, honest, enchanting New Mexican food.

Too bad they have chile spelled wrong on their menu (at least the online version, we hardly looked at it in the restaurant because we knew what we wanted!).

Uptown Mom is going to lie down now and enjoy her food coma. Have a good night.

P.S. The babies enjoyed the sopapilla, tortilla chips, side of flour tortilla with side of sour cream, beans and rice, and milk in a glass. There was only one highchair. The big brother had other plans for the evening, but he'll have to learn to like it soon.

P.P.S. Warning: Closed Sundays.

P.P.P.S. If you can get your hands on some real New Mexican Hatch green chiles, they are an AMAZING addition to latkes.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Harlem Thanksgiving

For the first time since moving to Harlem, it's my turn to host Thanksgiving dinner for my extended family. I'm considering (maybe) a Harlem-cuisine theme: items that leap to mind are sweet potato pie, collard greens, and cornbread.

But because of our various eating restrictions (a complicated amalgam of kashrut and concern for animal welfare, but the bottom line is we eat vegetarian in restaurants), we don't eat at many of the Harlem institutions that exemplify classic Harlem eating. So my grasp of what is traditional is poor. Anyone have suggestions for great food that a Harlem Thanksgiving shouldn't be without? (ixNay on the amHay. But to the extent that great recipes for veggies call for, say, ham hocks, I can do a certain amount of adapting myself.)

(I'm not certain we're going to go the classic Harlem cooking route; I'm also considering an entirely different cuisine -- New Mexican, which we dearly miss from the years we spent living in New Mexican. We also have zero recipes for that but can probably track them down. Still deciding.)

Techiyah finally has a website!

Check out our awesome new website!

Our next two events are a Friday night minyan/potluck and Saturday night party during Chanukah. See the website for details.

Friday, November 2, 2007

Shabbat services and pot-luck next week

Next Friday, November 9, Techiyah of Harlem will be having traditional egalitarian Jewish services and a dairy pot-luck dinner in an apartment on 117th Street in Harlem. For several years now, we've been meeting approximately monthly. Not specifically a children's event, but a few kids are regulars -- motzi is usually said by a child -- and the more kids, the merrier. No website yet, but if you'd like to be added to the evite list, please let me know!

Some Harlem happenings this weekend

Thursday, October 25, 2007

Halloween in Harlem

First, check out this wonderful series of "Halloween in Harlem" photos by photographer Amy Stein. (I am having some difficulty with the link to the first photo in the series, by the way, so if that doesn't work for you, try this.)

Second, here are Halloween events uptown (Harlem or above) that sound kid-friendly, to the best of my knowledge:

Have a ghoulish time (and as usual, please let me know what I've missed)!

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Green your brownstone!

Okay, the event is in Brooklyn, but Harlemites who own brownstones and are interested in saving energy or just living greener may find this to be of interest.

Friday, October 19, 2007

Stuff to Do Uptown this weekend

Other than the usual stuff, this weekend uptown there's

Also tickets for next week's Halloween Family Disco, which will be next Saturday at Tribal Spears Gallery (2167 Frederick Douglass Blvd. bet. 116th & 117th Sts.), can be purchased this Saturday at the weekly Harlem4Kids storytime (9:30-11:30, also at Tribal Spears).

Did I miss special events uptown that would be great for kids and families this weekend? Please let me know. Thanks!

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Is SoHa the new Greenwich Village?

I have resisted the term SoHa for a long time, primarily because the term was stolen from certain other neighborhoods (as far as I can tell, in its original coinage it referred to areas south OF Harlem, rather than South Harlem, i.e., a part of Harlem), but my resistance is waning as I think the term is gaining currency as a recognizable term describing my little corner of Harlem, and the word "Harlem" by itself refers to such a huge part of Manhattan that the narrower term seems useful.

Anyhow, this article from today's Sun argues that we are substantially on the way to being the new Village (or SoHo?).

As someone who is quite fond of both Harlem Vintage and the Winery, I am heartened by the implication in the article that the potential rivals seem to view themselves as evidence of the area's robustness, not cut-throat competitors.

(Incidentally -- can't resist mentioning this, since I am after all Uptown Mom: I ADORE the Winery and shop there regularly -- unbelievable fabulous decor and price point -- but forget about getting a double stroller in there. Not that they're unfriendly -- there's just no way it is going to fit. At least not when the store has lots of people in it -- I haven't tried when it's empty, but I don't think it would work even then, it is just so tiny. At Harlem Vintage -- also a great store, although pricier -- I have attended tastings and events with some portion of my rugrats in tow and have felt quite welcome.)

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Ambassade: Yummy Senegalese - but careful with the stroller set

Ambassade has the distinction of having already been in place the day, almost 4 years ago, that I first came up to Harlem to look for a house. We actually hated the house that we saw, but after we were done looking, we made our way under lots of scaffolding (which I believe surrounded structures that were to become Brownstone Lane, the Larkspur and the Douglass) to Ambassade, where we were pleasantly surprised to find excellent croissants and pains au chocolat. And there we talked about whether we wanted to come back and look some more (we did).

The croissant and pain au chocolat are still great, the egg sandwich is an incredible deal ($3 , big enough for 2 people and delicious), and the vegetarian dishes they've added to their dinner menu are a welcome addition. But we have stopped taking our brood there during anything but the most empty times of day, because they do not have highchairs, and when the place is remotely crowded, that is a deal-breaker for us. (EARLY Sunday mornings, when it's not yet crowded, we actually sit on the couch or cushiony chairs and let the babies crawl around by our feet while we eat. It's fun but a bit too much of an adventure to seem like a good idea -- with babies constantly reaching and making a break for it, I really wish there were a way to strap those little guys in.)

2 Yum's: Yum Yum!

Sunday, October 7, 2007

A note on my restaurant reviews

My angle is kid-friendliness. I want to help other parents have fun with their kids. I have no desire to issue blanket criticisms of restaurants that serve my community. Therefore, if I just don't like the food, I probably will just refrain from reviewing it on this blog.

So when I review a restaurant, I will give it between one and four Yum's depending on how welcome my kids are. In general, 1 Yum = definitely not welcome, 2 Yum's = kids tolerated, 3 Yum's = they have highchairs but still don't seem all that keen, 4 Yum's = they appear to be thrilled to have my kids there making a big mess.

Zoma: Awesome, kid-friendly Ethiopian

On a recent visit to Zoma, we brought all 3 boys -- twin babies and our 4.5-year-old. They had highchairs for both babies, and they fawned over all 3 kids. Since our big kid was hungry and was going to have trouble waiting for the meal, we asked them to bring an extra order of injera right away, and they were extremely accommodating about bringing it along with more substantive food for him (took some convincing to keep his extra food vegetarian). All the food was, as usual, delicious, and all the kids enjoyed it too. (The big boy wants to add: "I like injera a lot. And my two brothers like injera too.")

4 Yum's: Yum Yum Yum Yum!

Sunday, September 23, 2007

New on this Blog: Harlem Jewish Life feature (a list of links to the left)

Being very busy with the chaggim (Jewish holidays) lately, I have not had a chance to go out and make good on my promise to add updated posts including photos, etc. However, in the spirit of the season, I have added a new page element to this blog, featuring elements of what I am calling "Harlem Jewish Life". I am including in my list anything I know about which is colorably Jewish and is in or very close to Harlem; I have ruled things out only based on my sense that they are not close enough to Harlem to be included. (On my geographic standard: I figure there are plenty of places other than this blog that deal extensively with Upper West Side Jewish life, so I have set a pretty strict Harlem-oriented standard -- either actually within Harlem, or within very few blocks of Harlem -- which unfortunately rules out certain wonderfully parent/kid/family-oriented congregations that are not very far at all. Basically if a place outside of Harlem feels to me like a shlep to go with my kids, I've ruled them out.) If you know of anything I've missed that I should have included, please let me know.

Shanah tovah/Happy new year, everyone!

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Resurfacing

Well, I learned within the past few days that people have actually read this blog. Which means that my starting it, and then allowing it to lie fallow for 8 months, was in pretty poor form. (I especially regret that I wasn't aware people were actually commenting here; from now on I will receive emails when people comment, and I will belatedly reply to those comments shortly.) In any event, I will be bringing this site up to date very shortly. Please accept this post as a preview/teaser.

Eight months turns out to be a long time in the context of this "Harlem Renaissance". I will start out by updating many of the items previously featured, because the progress is rather stunning. Most importantly to me The Playground With The Dangerous Equipment is no more -- I will report on the exciting groundbreaking of a new playground which will replace it. (Kudos to Friends of Morningside Park, more to come.) The Harriet Tubman Memorial is COMPLETED. Many of the construction sites featured now look like they are nearly ready for occupancy.

The other item I plan to update, and I will preview it right now, is the crime outlook for the 28th precinct, which (knock wood) is enormously improved so far for 2007 over both 2006 and 2005, which is an enormous relief. On a quick glance our trend data looks better than the city as a whole, which was not true the last time I posted. I don't have time to post the pdf right now, and you will have trouble finding the statistics yourself through google (it looks like the city has recently moved the page, so the usual google search doesn't work), but you can link to crime stats for particular precincts and the city as a whole here.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Community Council Meeting

I attended the Police Community Council meeting on Tuesday night. As I'd heard previously, our precinct has lost officers, although we have gotten some back. But we're still about 30 short of where we were in the beginning of 2006.

I also learned that the force overall is short about 5,000 officers, and is also missing the crime-fighting capabilities of the 1,000 who are occupied with counterterrorism . (Pathetic that our city has to do its own national defense because the feds are so not on-task. Seriously, imagine if residents of Peoria had to use significant local money to prevent it from being attacked like we were!)

The officers from the precinct are clearly working as hard as they can to contain the burgeoning violent crime problem, but there are not enough of them. They also would like to downplay that murder number and treat it as a fluke (and it's true that it looks extra-bad because any changes in small numbers results in a large percentage change), but I found the spin unconvincing; they just referred to the number of homicides being up for "various reasons". The only real fluke in the data, so far as I could tell, is a death in 2006 which was attributable to an injury inflicted 30 years ago -- but take that one out and homicides for 2006 are still more than double what they were in 2005.

The one bit of good news (other than the increased numbers of officers, which I regard as mixed news since we're still so far below the early 2006 numbers) came from a speaker visiting from the mayor's office -- someone (whose name I didn't get to write down and now can't locate online) involved in firearms policy. Considering carrying a gun? Don't. According to this gentleman, as of November, the minimum penalty for carrying a loaded firearm increased from 1 year to 3-1/2 years, and an "interest of justice" exception that was being used by judges in a majority of cases to give less than the minimum sentence was eliminated. If this change gets kids to change their gun-toting practices, it has the potential to have a palpable effect on murder rates -- apparently, those convicted of carrying loaded firearms are 4 times more likely than other felons to commit a homicide within the next 7 years.

With murder numbers like ours compared to the city, we need more attention. Regardless of any absolute shortage of officers, we obviously need a greater proportion of those who are available. At the very least, we need more and more resources until our trend data comes back in line with the rest of the city. And no fair comparing 2007 numbers to the appalling 2006 numbers and claiming things are improving -- we should not be further penalized for last year's failures!

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Quote of the Day

(Do not read too much into the name of this post. I am not committing to a regular feature. There may be no quote of the day, or more than one, depending on my mood!)

"Housing prices are a problem. But better than boarded-up buildings. Everything changes. But Harlem will stay Harlem." - Charles Rangel, quoted in the 1/15/07 issue of New York Magazine

Bagel, I hardly knew ye!

People ask me all the time whether I "feel safe" in my neighborhood. Should I?

Check out the trend data for the 28th Precinct and compare it to the rest of the city.

Since these are numbers rather than rates, you might expect them to go up a bit when the population increases (all else being equal). More people and equivalent crime rates = more crimes. But I'm pretty sure the population is not increasing by the kinds of numbers you're seeing here.

My understanding is that the 28th Precinct has lost some number of police officers. MEMO TO NYC: WE NEED THEM BACK. PLEASE. ASAP.

Bagel in Harlem has hit rock bottom. Sure, what happened to her could have happened anywhere. And in fact, felony assault numbers are actually dropping more quickly in Harlem than elsewhere. But other categories of violent crime are on the rise. I hope she changes her mind and comes back, but I can hardly blame her if she doesn't.

Some new development (in progress) near our home

A non-representative sampling of some new stuff coming down the pike near our house:

- Dwyer Condominium (123rd and St. Nicholas)



- Just getting underway, a development site on Manhattan Avenue between 119th and 120th. (According to the people at the Brownstone Lane II sales office, this development site is slated for a twin of 444 Manhattan Avenue, which is very attractive inside and out.)


(In the background of the shot above you can see Brownstone Lane II which is almost done, and, off to the right, SOHA 118 going up. I'll get photos of those up on a different day, probably when it's not quite as cold. The fence was open, allowing me to get the unusual shot below.)
- 257 West 117th Street (a rehab of a non-residential building, not new construction)

Tuesday, January 9, 2007

Harriet Tubman Memorial!



Pretty cool. I don't remember ever seeing a sign explaining the construction previously.


The Playground with the Dangerous Equipment, Revisited

The Dangerous Equipment:



Note that the slides come straight from ladders which have little in the way of safety features (rather than, as is more common, from platforms atop monkey bars). The other side of the playground, which is geared at younger kids, has bucket swings and smaller versions of the same antiquated slides.

In addition to the equipment being dangerous, the intersections near the playground are also dangerous. For example, several of the closest intersections to the playground entrance lack traffic signals. Perhaps we should call it The Playground with the Dangerous Intersections.

117th and Manhattan Avenue:


117th and Morningside Avenue:



Note that Morningside Avenue is a total of 6 lanes wide -- two traffic lanes plus a parking lane in each direction. Note also that (a) this is the intersection closest to the playground entrance, and (b) the defect is not unique to this intersection, but, rather, is duplicated at 118th and 119th Streets.

I need to check to be sure, but I'm pretty certain there are no comparably ill-equipped intersections anywhere along CPW, which is an otherwise comparable configuration.

Sunday, January 7, 2007

The Playground with the Dangerous Equipment

This afternoon I brought the kids to the playground at 117th Street and Morningside Avenue, a playground which in our household is known as The Playground with the Dangerous Equipment, in honor of its old-fashioned slides with exposed ladders and nearly nothing in the way of guard rails. The playground in question is slated to be demolished and replaced with a more modern playground, one with safer and more attractive modern equipment, beginning this coming spring. My friend Deborah, visiting from Weehawken, came with me, and we watched my nearly-4-year-old play while we took care of the twins, who are too young to play at The Playground with the Dangerous Equipment. (Being 10 weeks old, they're too young to play at any playground.) Deborah also took both twins for awhile and officiated while my son and I raced one another on the nifty racetrack they have at that playground.

While at the park we observed, to our great surprise, the daffodils in FULL BLOOM. I found the sight of those daffodils incredibly disturbing, and am less and less comforted by meteorologists' insistence that what is going on in NY this winter is unrelated to global warming. I was curious to see if anyone else had noted this phenomenon, and sure enough, there it was, in Joe Schumacher's blog. (I didn't get any pictures of it myself when I was there because (a) I don't usually carry a camera with me, and (b) I do not take pictures on Shabbat. In honor of this blog, though, I will try to start taking more pictures, something I've been meaning to do for awhile anyway. For starters, I'll try to post pictures of The (aforementioned) Playground with the Dangerous Equipment, sooner rather than later.)

We ultimately had to leave because my son was defying my instructions on how to play relatively safely on the Dangerous Equipment. (There's a huge surprise.)